i want to share with you some of my favourite graffiti from Pompeii
“Weep, you girls. My penis has given you up. Now it penetrates men’s behinds. Goodbye, wondrous femininity!“
“Amplicatus, I know that Icarus is buggering you. Salvius wrote this.“
“We two dear men, friends forever, were here. If you want to know our names, they are Gaius and Aulus.“
“Floronius, privileged soldier of the 7th legion, was here. The women did not know of his presence. Only six women came to know, too few for such a stallion.“
“On April 19th, I made bread.“
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I have buggered men.“
“If anyone does not believe in Venus, they should gaze at my girlfriend.“
“It took 640 paces to walk back and forth between here and there ten times.“
“Chie, I hope your hemorrhoids rub together so much that they hurt worse than when they every have before!“
“Epaphra is not good at ball games.”
“Two friends were here. While they were, they had bad service in every way from a guy named Epaphroditus. They threw him out and spent 105 and half sestertii most agreeably on whores.“
“Secundus likes to screw boys.“
I’ve always loved these. Humanity has never fucking changed.
If you survived your suicidal thoughts, I am proud of you. If you made a milestone in being clean, I am excited for you. If you relapsed, I love you. If you’re still struggling this very moment with your mental health, I am still so fucking proud of you.
If you are an INFJ, what do you think is the hardest part of having this personality?
Feels alone. INFJs put a very high bar for themselves and others and it’s a problem because some INFJs can easily get disappointing or feel misunderstood. To them, you will never understand our weird way of thinking or our feelings or actions such as being passive despite not wanting to or suddenly wanting to be alone.
Sometimes feeling conflicted. INFJs have a strong set of morals/beliefs and are empathetic. This allows us to see both sides of the argument, most of the time, and this sometimes makes us conflicted on which side to pick to obtain the best outcome. Logic vs Emotions. Selfless vs Selfish. Humble vs Proud.
Being to hard on oneself. Sometimes our first instinct is to blame our self and some of us feel shame all the time. We try really hard to be better than ourselves and good all the time that it gets tiring.
